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Marriage is a fundamental institution that no one should try rushing into. You must take time to think and ensure that you are getting married to no one else but your soulmate. A wedding may last for a day but marriage last forever, it is for better and for worst, if you end up with the wrong person you may have to live with the pains all through.

However, when you get married to your soulmate, best friend, your lover, someone that does not only complement and stay by your side in all situation you will be happy at all time. Here are some signs that show that you are marrying your soul mate.

  • You must have an emotional connection with your soulmate: a soulmate must be someone you can look at and be happy, someone that adores you, a person whom you have an emotional connection with and not someone who you do not love naturally but was forced to by your parents or the society. When you are connected emotionally, other things fall into place.

  • A soulmate is someone you can communicate with at all time: Before you get married, ensure that your soulmate is someone whom you can freely talk to about everything and anything. Communication is critical in every home; if you are unable to communicate with your partner, then you may have a home that is filled with problems, communication helps couples settle their differences, always talk it out with your soulmate and never allow your problem see the sunrise of a new day.

  • A soulmate is someone you value: When you are dating someone that you truly value, it may be a sign that you are getting married to your soulmate, don’t end up with a person you cannot respect or value, remember that love and placing value on a person works hand in hand.

  • Mutual Respect: Another character that depicts you may be marrying your soulmate is mutual respect. When there is mutual respect between you and your partner you won’t have many problems in your home. Don’t marry someone that you do not respect, he or she may end up hitting you and calling you rude names leading to both emotional and physical abuse. Therefore, it is critical to ensure that you are married to someone you truly respect.

  • Trust is very important: What is love and marriage without trust? Most broken relationships and divorces are caused as a result of lack of trust because a relationship without trust is as good as dead. If you want to enjoy your marriage, ensure that you get married only to someone you honestly trust and believes whatever he or she says to you.

  • A soul mate is someone you are attached to: Your soulmate must be someone you cannot do without, someone you think of at all time, you just can’t even imagine life without the person. Being inseparable makes it more difficult for you to ever think of a break up even when you are sad or hurt. Always ensure that you are solely attached to your soulmate.

  • Love is the key: Your soul mate must be someone you love so much and have genuine feelings for. Ask yourself some honest questions like am I truly in love with this person? Am I dating them for material gains? Will I still be in love with them in the next ten years? Answers to this questions will help you know if you are you love your partner or just want to get married due to societal pressure.

Finally, marriage is a long-lasting union, before getting married ensure that you are on the right track by marrying your soulmate. Be sure that you truly love, trust, respect and communicates well with him or her.

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Ladies get ready, Engagement season is here! Yes, there is such a thing.

If you haven’t noticed or herd by now, The jewelry stores, tuxedo rentals, DJs, limo services, photography, photo booths, and all wedding vendors prep themselves and start to spend their big ad dollars now! That’s because end of the year holidays are prime season for getting engaged including Thanksgiving, Christmas and Valentines Day.

The engagement season statistics say that 1 out of every 3 get engaged between the months of November and February. We call these the love months. If you and that special someone are at that point to move to the next level, then you may want to brace yourself and be prepared for him/ her to pop the question suddenly during these winter months.

Then the planning begins! Where do you start? First thing first is pick a date! Keep in mind if you are a budget bride that most vendors will raise their price in the popular months because of supply and demand.
MARRIAGES BY MONTH:

* January 4.7%
* February 7.0%
* March 6.1%
* April 7.4%
* May 9.8%
* June 10.8%
* July 9.7%
* August 10.2%
* September 9.6%
* October 9.4%
* November 7.4%
* December 7.8%

After you have selected your date, now its time to reserve your vendors. Here is a list by category and when is appropriate to book them.

Wedding Planner: 9 Months
Reception Venue: 9 Months
Wedding Caterer: 9 Months
Photographer: 6 Months
Disc Jockey: 9 Months
Videographer: 6 Months
Ceremony Officiant: 6 Months
Wedding Florist: 6 Months
Wedding Cake Baker: 6 Months
Wedding Invitations: 6 Months
Transportation: 2 Months

 

Theses statistics came from Wedding Wire. My personal Recommendation is to add 2 months to each category. This will ensure you get the wedding vendors you want and they aren’t booked up already. Then you have to struggle with who’s left.

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