Planning a wedding is one of the most hectic activities that awaits both the bride and groom. You want the day to be perfect, and you want to feel like a princess, but there are a lot of factors to be considered.
Even with destination weddings and the smallest and most intimate wedding ceremonies, proper planning is required to pull off a hitch-free day. Before you start planning your wedding, it is necessary to consider some value-added tips and advice.
There is a lot of bracing up to do before planning a wedding. We have put together some tips that will guide you towards achieving your dream wedding day. There is a possibility that things might not be perfect, but with these tips, the odds are reduced.
It’s never too early to start planning: Wedding planning and preparation can drag over an unpredicted amount of time. You think you’ve got everything figured out until the tiniest details begin to beg for attention. With the craziness of the days closer to your big day, it is advisable to start planning even the smallest details from months before. Planning the fundamental details long before time will give you a structure to work with, as soon as your wedding date is confirmed, it is advisable to sort out the fundamentals. Questions like “how much money can I afford to spend on my wedding?”, “who do I want at my wedding?” and “what can’t I remove from the list?” should be answered long before the heavy planning begins. That way, whatever happens later can be checked by the decisions you made.
Figure out the budget: Working with a fixed budget is pertinent. Unforeseen needs will arise. A vendor could fail. Natural causes could even disrupt the flow of activities. A fixed budget helps in dealing with the financial stress that could be associated with wedding planning. The budget should also include a specific amount of miscellaneous expenses and unforeseen circumstances. You can get in touch with a wedding planner or do research to get an estimate of the amount to set aside for miscellaneous expenses and unexpected circumstances. Your budget should also be as detailed as possible.
Get as much reliable help as is available: It’s tempting to want to see to every little detail yourself. As a bride, there are a lot of things to worry about, from the flowers to your manicure. So, get as much reliable help as is available. The emphasis is on reliable help because you do not want to get help from someone whom you can’t trust to deliver. The person helping out should be someone who understands your needs and would go all the way to ensure that you get them. If you don’t have a lot of reliable help, a professional wedding planner would be the solution. The availability of a professional wedding planner depends on your budget though. As you plan your big day, you need a lot of help. When you find help in any form, accept it, especially if it’s from someone with your best interest at heart.
Get the best vendors: After establishing your budget, you should carry out proper research to find the best vendors within your budget range. Wedding cost quite some money and wedding vendors capitalize on the fantasy nature of wedding to offer prices that could be a bit outrageous. For a moment, forget about your fantasies when you search for your vendors. Get the vendors that offer the best value. The value you seek as a bride is not necessarily the best price. It could be the vendor that gets your needs and will be able to deliver.
Finally, don’t forget to have fun, you will get married just once, at least to that person. So, be a little bit selfish; have fun. In the midst of all the overwhelming activities, ensure that it’s still your day. You should fit in at least one de-stressing activity in your day, at least before the night comes. Whether you choose to go for a quiet ceremony or a big party, you should fit in an activity that you and your spouse will remember forever into your big day.