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Planning advice, vendor spotlights, and practical ideas for couples who want a celebration that feels polished, personal, and easy to enjoy.
From music and timeline tips to guest experience and event flow, this is where we share the kind of insight that helps couples make smarter decisions and create a wedding that actually feels like them.
Expert Wedding Planning Tips from Something Borrowed
At Abell DJ Company, we know that flawless wedding days don’t happen by accident—they take planning, precision, and a great vendor team. That’s why we’re excited to feature Jess & Liz from Something Borrowed in our latest blog series, where we spotlight some of the most trusted wedding pros in the St. Louis area.
Jess and Liz are expert day-of coordinators who specialize in helping couples fully enjoy their big day without worrying about the logistics. Whether it’s handling a last-minute hiccup or making sure every detail flows seamlessly, these two bring calm, experience, and a personal touch to every event.
What Are the Most Common Wedding Planning Mistakes Couples Make?
“One of the biggest mistakes we see is couples forgetting that the day is about them and their love,” they told us. “There’s so much pressure to check off a million boxes and please everyone, that they forget to stop and ask, ‘What do we want?’”
Jess and Liz encourage couples to focus less on traditions and expectations—and more on what feels meaningful and authentic to them. “Take a moment for yourselves on your wedding day. Pause, look around, and soak it all in. It goes by so fast.”
What’s Your Best Tip for Hiring a Wedding Coordinator?
“No matter how well you plan, something unexpected will happen. A great day-of coordinator handles those surprises behind the scenes,” they said. “From bad weather to traffic delays or a missing vendor, we’ve seen it all. When couples hire us, they can truly relax and stay present, knowing we’ve got their back.”
One essential question to ask when hiring a coordinator? “Can you share examples of how you’ve handled last-minute issues at other weddings?”
What Don’t Couples Know About Day-of Coordination?
“A lot of couples assume the venue coordinator will take care of everything,” they explained. “But venue coordinators are focused on the venue—they’re not managing your vendor team, fixing timeline changes, or packing up your décor at the end of the night.”
Jess and Liz make sure nothing is missed, no one’s left waiting, and the day runs exactly how the couple imagined it. “We’re there from setup to send-off to make sure everything flows. That peace of mind is priceless.”
What Questions Should Couples Be Asking (But Usually Don’t)?
One often-forgotten detail? “How are we getting everything home after the wedding?”
“From leftover food to personal décor and gifts, it’s easy to overlook the end-of-night logistics,” they said. “We help couples create a plan early so they’re not scrambling at midnight.”
This type of proactive problem-solving is what makes day-of coordinators such an essential part of the vendor team.
What’s Your Best Overall Advice for Engaged Couples?
“Book your key vendors early to lock in availability and pricing,” they suggested. “And be intentional about who you let influence your planning. Everyone will have an opinion—but stay true to your vision as a couple.”
They added, “Lean on your vendors—we’re here to support you, offer guidance, and help make choices that align with your priorities and budget.”
What’s the Most Unique Wedding You’ve Ever Worked?
“We’ve done weddings in a TV studio, at the City Museum, at Third Degree Glass Factory, and more,” they said. “Each one was completely unique and reflected the couple’s personalities. Those are the weddings that stand out—not because they were extravagant, but because they were personal.”
Most Memorable Wedding Day?
“We once had a wedding in a small Illinois town where a balloon race and parade unexpectedly shut down the only street to the venue—on the day of the wedding! We had to act fast—reroute all the vendors, relocate the wedding party, and completely adjust our timeline, all in just a few hours.”
Despite the chaos, the day was unforgettable. “Hot-air balloons flew overhead during the reception. The couple was thrilled. It was one of those moments where experience, teamwork, and calm under pressure made all the difference.”
Final Thoughts: Why Hiring a Coordinator Matters
Jess and Liz from Something Borrowed bring professionalism, creativity, and calm energy to every event. If you’re planning a wedding in St. Louis or the surrounding area, we highly recommend checking them out. A great coordinator can make all the difference in turning your wedding into a stress-free celebration.
📍 Learn more about their services at: somethingborrowed411.weebly.com
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