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Planning advice, vendor spotlights, and practical ideas for couples who want a celebration that feels polished, personal, and easy to enjoy.
From music and timeline tips to guest experience and event flow, this is where we share the kind of insight that helps couples make smarter decisions and create a wedding that actually feels like them.
Vendor Spotlight: Andrea Messina from Ces & Judy’s Catering Shares Expert Advice for St. Louis Couples
Planning a wedding can feel overwhelming, especially when there are countless decisions and voices in the mix. At Abell DJ Company, we’re committed to connecting couples with trusted vendors who make that process smoother, and more enjoyable.
Today, we’re excited to spotlight Andrea Messina, Catering Sales & Event Manager at Ces & Judy’s Catering, one of St. Louis’ most respected and long-standing catering companies.
Wedding Planning Tips from Andrea at Ces & Judy’s
What common mistakes do couples make when planning a wedding?
One of the biggest challenges Andrea sees is couples getting overwhelmed by outside opinions. It’s easy to lose sight of your own vision when others chime in with what they think your day should look like. Her advice? “Find a way to quiet the noise and focus on what makes you happy.”
What’s the best tip when hiring a vendor like yours?
Be transparent about your budget from the start. “Letting your vendors know your budget early helps them give you the most accurate information and recommendations right away.”
What don’t most couples know about Ces & Judy’s?
“Our food speaks for itself,” Andrea says. “We’ve been around for decades, and we take pride in our work. We’re also able to customize menus, which gives couples flexibility and confidence in what’s being served.”
What questions should couples ask—but often don’t?
“There are no wrong questions,” Andrea emphasizes. “Most couples only plan a wedding once. Don’t be afraid to ask about anything you’re unsure of.”
What’s your top piece of advice for couples?
“After the excitement of the engagement, sit down and have honest conversations about what really matters to both of you. Compromise when needed, and always keep the joy of the celebration at the center of the planning.”
Most Unique and Memorable Weddings
When asked about unique events, Andrea shared a wedding inspired by Coraline and The Nightmare Before Christmas. The bride wore a stunning black gown, and the entire aesthetic was beautifully gothic and whimsical.
Her most memorable event, however, was a small micro-wedding at Klondike Park. “The couple was thoughtful, the decor was breathtaking, and we’re still in touch today. It reminded me how meaningful small weddings can be.”
Having worked alongside Ces & Judy’s at numerous events, we’ve seen firsthand the professionalism, care, and quality Andrea and her team bring to each celebration. If you’re looking for a catering partner who truly listens and delivers an unforgettable experience, they’re one of the best in St. Louis.
Learn More About Ces & Judy’s Catering
📍 10440 German Blvd, St. Louis, MO 63131
📞 (314) 991-6700 ext. 222
🌐 cesandjudys.com | thevenuestl.com
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