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Vendor Spotlight: MEM Media – Capturing Your Day in Motion
At Abell DJ Company, we love working alongside incredible vendors who bring something unique to every wedding. One of those standout teams is MEM Media, a video production company based in O’Fallon, Missouri. We recently caught up with Mark Mattei, Owner & Creative Director, to get his insights on wedding videography and advice for couples planning their big day.
What common mistakes do you see couples making when planning a wedding?
Planning every minute of the day. Mark reminds couples that your wedding isn’t a military operation—it’s a celebration. Things can shift, so building flexibility into your schedule will help keep the day stress-free and enjoyable.
What’s your top tip for couples hiring a videographer?
Don’t save video for last. Too many couples think of videography as an “add-on” and later regret not having it. As Mark puts it, “A wedding video is the most real story of your day.” It lets you relive those memories, hear the speeches again, and feel those moments all over.
What don’t most couples know about your business?
MEM Media is a corporate video company first, which allows them to offer wedding packages at an incredible value.Often, you’ll get 2–3 videographers for the price others charge for one. Mark and his partner do weddings because they love them—not because they have to.
What questions should couples be asking but don’t?
Know what to expect—both in deliverables and how the day will go. Every videographer structures things differently. With MEM Media, couples receive full-day coverage, a cinematic highlight video, and full recordings of the speeches and ceremony.
What’s your best piece of advice for wedding planning?
Stay within your budget. Mark emphasizes not putting yourself in financial strain. “Your wedding should be a positive memory, not something that leaves a shadow due to money stress.”
What’s the most unusual wedding you’ve filmed?
A barefoot ceremony in the woods followed by a blunt in a cave. Yep, you read that right. “It was a lot of fun,” Mark laughed.
What’s been your most memorable wedding?
A recent Jewish wedding stood out for the connection built with the couple. Mark shared how meaningful it was to create a friendship with the clients—something they always strive for.
If you’re looking for a videographer who’s passionate, talented, and offers amazing value, we highly recommend checking out MEM Media – Video Production | O’Fallon, Missouri. To view their wedding portfolio, email mark@memfilms.com.
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📞 636-385-8225
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